Comments on: Creating my own reality http://defragment.me/thoughts/creating-my-own-reality random fragments from my mind Thu, 12 Aug 2010 03:55:39 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: chee chee http://defragment.me/thoughts/creating-my-own-reality#comment-1415 chee chee Tue, 10 Aug 2010 01:52:30 +0000 http://defragment.me/?p=337#comment-1415 Yes, I have read this. The reason why some words are harsher and some comments are mean is becos the people who said those things are more worried and most concern, not because they are trying to put you down, you are aware i m sure. So long as you are truly happy, everyone else will be happy for you too :) Yes, I have read this.

The reason why some words are harsher and some comments are mean is becos the people who said those things are more worried and most concern, not because they are trying to put you down, you are aware i m sure.

So long as you are truly happy, everyone else will be happy for you too :)

]]> By: Adriana http://defragment.me/thoughts/creating-my-own-reality#comment-45 Adriana Fri, 13 Mar 2009 14:49:07 +0000 http://defragment.me/?p=337#comment-45 what a great post! objective, sincere, deep. made me ponder a lot about my plans and decisions. what a great post! objective, sincere, deep.
made me ponder a lot about my plans and decisions.

]]> By: Katy http://defragment.me/thoughts/creating-my-own-reality#comment-40 Katy Sat, 07 Mar 2009 16:37:45 +0000 http://defragment.me/?p=337#comment-40 Thank you. I thought I was the only one going through that. Two weeks ago, I too had hit rock bottom and all those things you thought were the same things that were also going through my mind at the time. I finally got laid off from the job I hated so much, but everyone kept telling me I was so lucky to have it. One of my close friends was completely disappointed in me and believed that moving back closer to my family was a horrible decision. Also that I should have stayed where I was and take horrible part-time jobs to pay for my overpriced rent. I eventually got fed up with tearing myself down because of what everyone else was saying and their disapproval. I have a friend that is very dear to me that is going through his own situation, trying to find his place in this world and my constant depression. I broke his heart and I broke my own each time when I got online and he was trying so hard to make me smile and I would just push him away or get angry at him because I felt like I wasn't good enough for him. I have a lot to learn. Just turned 22 and I realized that I have to make my own path and decisions. Yes, I will listen to what people will say, but in the end, I'll make my own assessment and make MY own choices. Sorry for rambling on like this, but I would like to thank you so much for this post. It really did give me hope and know that I'm not alone. *hugs* You're awesome. :-) Thank you. I thought I was the only one going through that. Two weeks ago, I too had hit rock bottom and all those things you thought were the same things that were also going through my mind at the time.

I finally got laid off from the job I hated so much, but everyone kept telling me I was so lucky to have it. One of my close friends was completely disappointed in me and believed that moving back closer to my family was a horrible decision. Also that I should have stayed where I was and take horrible part-time jobs to pay for my overpriced rent.

I eventually got fed up with tearing myself down because of what everyone else was saying and their disapproval.

I have a friend that is very dear to me that is going through his own situation, trying to find his place in this world and my constant depression. I broke his heart and I broke my own each time when I got online and he was trying so hard to make me smile and I would just push him away or get angry at him because I felt like I wasn't good enough for him.

I have a lot to learn. Just turned 22 and I realized that I have to make my own path and decisions. Yes, I will listen to what people will say, but in the end, I'll make my own assessment and make MY own choices.

Sorry for rambling on like this, but I would like to thank you so much for this post. It really did give me hope and know that I'm not alone. *hugs* You're awesome. :-)

]]> By: kiapkiap http://defragment.me/thoughts/creating-my-own-reality#comment-39 kiapkiap Sat, 07 Mar 2009 01:44:44 +0000 http://defragment.me/?p=337#comment-39 It's good to see you feeling comfortable in your own skin. *hugs* It's good to see you feeling comfortable in your own skin. *hugs*

]]> By: Tiko|Peace-Joy-Love http://defragment.me/thoughts/creating-my-own-reality#comment-38 Tiko|Peace-Joy-Love Fri, 06 Mar 2009 14:34:23 +0000 http://defragment.me/?p=337#comment-38 I absolutely love this post! I too am beginning to create my own reality. It is a bit daunting, but I truly believe that it can be done. I just don't feel comfortable doing what everyone thinks is best. What everyone else thinks is best, is great for them, but I believe it's done out of fear. I don't wanna live my life that way, always afraid. I wanna do what I love, and what I feel in my heart is meant for me to do. I trust and believe that I will always be supported by the Universe if I live my life this way. There is nothing to fear...:) I absolutely love this post! I too am beginning to create my own reality. It is a bit daunting, but I truly believe that it can be done. I just don't feel comfortable doing what everyone thinks is best. What everyone else thinks is best, is great for them, but I believe it's done out of fear. I don't wanna live my life that way, always afraid. I wanna do what I love, and what I feel in my heart is meant for me to do. I trust and believe that I will always be supported by the Universe if I live my life this way. There is nothing to fear...:)

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