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		<title>True love does exist after all</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Jan 2009 06:32:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Winnie L.</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Quoted from Scientists discover true&#160;love: Scientists have discovered true love. Brain scans have proved that a small number of couples can respond with as much passion after 20 years as most people exhibit only in the first flush of&#160;love. The findings overturn the conventional view that love and sexual desire peak at the start of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Quoted from <a href="http://women.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/women/relationships/article5439805.ece">Scientists discover true&nbsp;love</a>:</p>
<blockquote><p>Scientists have discovered true love. Brain scans have proved that a small number of couples can respond with as much passion after 20 years as most people exhibit only in the first flush of&nbsp;love.</p>
<p>The findings overturn the conventional view that love and sexual desire peak at the start of a relationship and then decline as the years&nbsp;pass.</p></blockquote>
<p>I've personally always believed this to be true, because I have seen and felt for myself – Old couples with greying hair, holding hands, and looking at each other with <strong>that&nbsp;look</strong>.</p>
<p>So while I applaud the honesty of Steve Pavlina's <a href="http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2008/12/2009-focus-intimate-relationships/">new experiment</a>, no, I do not agree with him about <a href="http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2009/01/polyamory/">marriage being an useless institution</a>. I feel there's something very special to actually desire to spend the rest of your life with <strong>only one person</strong>. That does not mean I do not agree with open relationships, I guess I would rather be in an open relationship than to have any shred of doubt about my relationship and commiting myself to anyone because society tells me&nbsp;to.</p>
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